hello fellas!

I'm currently in NewYork freakin' City!

it's my fourth night already. so fast..

here's a glimpse!!

I'll come back for some nyc blog :)

nowwwwww

It's going to be about how and why you should move on from whatever makes you blue

I don't want a post to be everywhere and blurry as

 combining many stuffs together

and this topic was requested for like. a month or something already so I should do it now!

Well, to forget someone and to moving on is two different story..

but it's two things that goes along together like two side or the same coins.

same hand

same whatever nouns you like :p

but I can confirm you sometime there's long list of ways you can do to move on from any kind of thing that tide you behind but it's up to you if each method suits you well or not.

You know, sometime miracle can happens..

It's like your feeling keep fading and you just feel nothing special anymore.

so the post is more about how to move on from someone than something if you're wondering :)

But that feeling called miracle when it happens to you at the right time as you want it to, but remember, this world is mad, and it's real mad because of the thing called 'feeling' 

because it's not just happens to us, 

it can happens to others as well, and it probably called tragedy if it happens to our love ones

sure, we never ever want them to change.

So let's get started with something simple

Keep yourself busy

well, not lazy-busy

real-busy

Try find something you love doing that can keep your head stimulating and running that you can't even think of anything else but that activities

Find your passion, seriously maybe a short-term passion like a small project to work on.

Surround yourself with happy people who can make you smile, the ones who you can be silly with all day and keep on with the positive topics

Some books would work, but find something else rather than Nicholas Spark type of book.

I'm pretty sure you don't want to read beautiful tragic love story trying to forget someone..

Some TV series would do too.

I'm talking about The Simpson, Family Guy, Bigbang Theory or jump to CSI, Sherlock, Criminal mind type of shows by the way.. :p

Try keep your brain works as hard and as active in the way you still happy with it as possible,

keep doing it for a while, and maybe decrease it at some point you'll find yourself clean, out of worries and attached..

maybe you get new attatched..

to those tv series lol.

next, try think of yourself

You should really really really know your value.

I can type the word really for million times just to make you sure that you're really worth everything good, so please please please, believe me, you're worth every minute of happiness.

If you understand my point you'll clearly understand why you have no reasons at all to be miserable.

You're living your life, you deserved to be happy

you deserved to have all the wonderful moments

Maybe if you quite getting this but you still couldn't get your mind out of the thing you should try put your mind into something that can benefits yourself

maybe go for some massage or spa,

glam yourself up, be more beautiful than ever.

show everyone they all have no rights to break you.

You're as great as you're willing to be

Try remember rather than forget

 new one huh?

you probably wonder how remembering would help in moving on.

Let me quote Inception that quoted based on the book:

"If I tell you not to think about elephant, what do you think?"

"elephant"

"see."

So, yea, trying to forget is like trying to suppress all memories you have,

deeply inside you still freaking remember.

Try remember the feeling you didn't like.

Try remember how that person made you feel that you really hate and you'll remember why you have to walk out of this. You did because it's not good for you.

Try remember the reasons

and don't forget to remember that every action has reason as well so all you have to do it do the best for yourself to be happy again no matter how hard it takes.

Better think that way people :)

Let me know if you try and it works

or let me know anything you want from this blog!

Hope you're all doing great and having your hope up toward everything!

b

<3

smile :)

hi guys <3

I was just wondering about love ..

 you know, when you got to meet people and sometimes they're just sooo good..

As good as you never know would exist in the world.

Well, im not here today to describe a perfect fairy prince or anything

I don't know if this might sounds weird but..

'Do you believe in Soulmate?'

I kinda do

..sooooo

In my country there's some belief about a predictor..

He said something about my life that I, or people born around my time, will meet my 'soulmate' somewhere, sometime in between May 15th 2012 - May 15th 2013

me and my friends were exciting just for fun you know, we will meet someone who might belong to us!

sounds grand to me for some reasons hahahaaha

Since now is really close to May 15th already and I learned sooo many things about life, faith and love this passed year.. I've met soo many amazing people and I just want to tell you guys that ..

 sometimes, love doesn't come to you in one particular type..

I have been loving someone for so long that I once thought I cant think of anyone else in the world but then when time comes I can just moved on and live my life perfectly without thinking about this person anymore..

I decided to just pay attention to people who can make me happy

we got to love ourselves as well as others right..

so dont hurt yourself loving other people more than you appreciate your value :)

Well..

still not the main point of this blog.. :p

I come here to tell you all that at one point of your life..

someone will stepped in and make you wonder why it is so easy for you to love them..

..not a romantic love type but you will feel yourself bounded up with that particular person so quickly you questioned youself over again but if you open your mind try to see it another way.. it feels like they instantly became your family member as you love them just like that..

so if anyone asks me do I believe in soulmate or something like that I would say yes, I do

I might think it all by myself..

and that might be only the only part of this blog you agree with but trust me, you have to face it yourself and you'll know.. you can feel you being tied u

no matter in what way you love your person..

Dont forget to love yourself and know you deserve every right to be happy :)

<3 you all

Love your life and appreciate all the beauty surrounded you :)

<3

- b